Motherhood is not easy and as soon as you have a handle on what to do with one child, the next requires something totally different! Maybe your journey to motherhood was unexpected or had hurdles you hadn’t considered. Regardless of how you got here, we are happy to celebrate you, mom!

Here are some amazing ways to pat yourself on the back today:

1 Go Grocery Shopping Alone.

We all know the speed at which we grocery shop when we know the kids are at home waiting for us. Imagine the serenity of shopping at your leisure! Stroll the aisles at a snail’s pace instead!

2 Spend More Than 5 Minutes In The Shower

Lock the door too! Indulge your senses and bring some aromatics into the bathroom during your retreat. Bonus points if you warm the towel in the dryer before you hop in.

3 Take A Drive and Listen To The Music You Like

Remember how you used to jam out in the car before kids? Crank that uncensored music, the kind your kid would be mortified to know you listen to. Take a drive without a destination and turn up your playlist.

4 Learn Some Meditation Techniques

By now you must have heard about the benefits of meditation and mindfulness techniques. Let your mind and body find peace and relaxation with these simple yet effective tools.

5 Read That Book You’ve Been Putting Off

Even if you didn’t think to order one ahead of time, visit the library and browse a bit! Literature is an incredible release for your mind. Spend some time snuggled up with a page turner.

6 Indulge In Your Guilty Pleasure

Whether it’s celebrity news or eating all the marshmallows out of the box of Lucky Charms, let go of the restrictions you normally place on yourself and indulge a bit! Giving in to your guilty pleasure every now and again is a great way to treat yourself.